Again, welcome to the shard! Glad to have you on board. If I had to do it all over again I would concentrate on gaining dexterity and intelligence primarily. Although you would have the urge to raise your hit points as high as you can at first you will find there are many items out there that will help add strength and along with healing self with aids and magic you can compensate for lower hp's with those. And, until you get above the 180 hp range, there are several monsters out there that will still one hit you with breath, magic or physical damage anyways. Bows are obviously the range weapon of choice and it would be up to your own personal taste if you want one that delivers maximum damage per hit versus one that hits less hard but more often. Keep in mind that you cannot shoot a bow while moving here.
There is lots to see an do here so I know you will enjoy your stay. One advice I give to all new players here that I talk to is "LEARN TO STEALTH" as soon as possible. I hear it all too often from new players who get over confident after buying or breeding their first good set of pets an go off after the big prey, "Can someone please rez me before my body decays?" There is usually an avenue to resurrect with either an ankh, healer or portal nearby but since they can't stealth and their pets are dead by now, they get slaughtered before they reach their original body. The corpses just keep piling up and it gets harder to figure out which one was the one with all the stuff in it. So, train your hiding and stealth early here and any traumatic unhappy endings will be a lot less frequent.
Oh by the way, if you do not like dying, it's like taxes, it's inevitable.

If you ever need any help don't ever hesitate to ask. There are plenty of very knowledgeable players here or love to help.