+Nyx wrote:
So, Reskal, I do see your point and your concern is valid. I also see Hawke's point - I believe he was more trying to state that he thinks most players are being playful if they joke with other players, not with any intent to humiliate or upset the person asking the question. I think this is largely true, but as you've pointed out, one's idea of fun/silly could easily be someone else's idea of standing in front of the class in the buff.
You are right Reskal. I did not explain myself well in that post.
And thank you +Nyx, you are right too. I simply meant that post to point out that most times in chat, people are not being malicious, but just playing.
Although there are some that pretend to be playing but are seriously ridiculing those in need of help. But I am an older man.. 52 years has taught me that most things I used to consider insults are just poorly thought out playfulness.
I will give an example: I once worked with this guy, he would add "ness" to the end of things other would say. Like "cool...coolness".
"Yo...Yoness" "Gnarly...Gnarlyness". Well I was in the habit of greeting people that entered a room with me with a shortened version of "Hey...Ay" So guess what had me upset all weekend once. Till i made the connection on Monday.